We talk about communication a lot when giving advice about relationships, but there is always a way to communicate what you want to say without leaving your partner hurt.
There are a number of statements you should say to your girlfriend because she’ll definitely feel bad. You know her best so if there’s a way you can say what you mean without saying these exact words, go for it.
1 “Are you really going to wear that?”
I can’t begin to imagine the level of anger this statement will bring. There’s a chance she will even decide not to go out with you anymore or if she has no choice, she will ignore you the entire time you’re out.
Ladies usually try to plan outfits way ahead of time. Even if it feels like she’s now putting them together, she has probably been thinking about what exactly she wants to wear. There is a particular look she was trying to go for. Statements like these just suck the life out and she’ll just feel terrible about herself. Find a better way to communicate what you mean.
2 “You need to calm down”
I don’t think anyone likes being policed about how they should feel. From experience, when someone tells me to calm down, that is when I actually get angry. You have no right to police her feelings.
3 “I don’t know why you’re getting so emotional”
I don’t know about you but typing those words made me mad so imagine having an argument with your partner and throwing this statement in. There is a good chance that she’ll immediately stop talking and give you the silent treatment since you want a human being with no feelings whatsoever or she’ll argue more or even cry.
4 “You’ll get over it”
This is a tricky one. Depending on the situation and your actions, the statement can be a show of faith in your partner that she’s strong enough to get over what she’s going through. Imagine hugging her and letting her know that she’s a strong woman and you know she has the strength to let it go and get over it. That’s reassuring.
5 “Maybe you should go to the gym”
Lmao!! I actually feel sorry for the man who makes this statement to his partner.
Depending on how you throw it in the conversation, this could mean that you think she’s getting too big, and you already know that some girls have image issues.
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“Are you really going to wear that?”
“Maybe you should go to the gym”
“You’ll get over it”
“I don’t know why you’re getting so emotional”